Why do they call it a BLOW job instead of a SUCK job?

An answer to this question was provided on the Teaching in the Psychological Sciences list years ago. And you thought psychologists were a stuffy bunch of academic nerds. From: "Katerina S. Calderone" To: TIPS@FRE.FSU.UMD.EDU Date: Thu, 11 Jan 1996 12:03:45 MST Subject: blow job A few months ago the question of the origin of the phrase "blow job" came up. (Best not to inquire how.) I contacted a reference Librarian to help with the search. She found the following as the origin of the term:

Apparently, the term comes from Victorian England. Remember that at that time folks would refer to women of questionable character as "blowsy?" (Think about literature you've read.) Well, "blow" was slang for ejaculate. So, getting a blow job meant creating an ejaculation in the man. Thus, "blow job" is from the masculine perspective of what happens to the man (rather than some odd, ineffective action on the part of the partner). Once again, the masculine bias reigns!

You might want to verify this as, while I trust my reference Librarian, I cannot recall her source.

Katerina Calderone, Dept. of Psych, Univ. of Utah

Penis Facts 8======D

Actual amount of semen per ejaculation: 1-2 teaspoons

Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime: 7,200

Average # of times he will ejaculate from masturbation: 2,000

Average total amount of lifetime ejaculate: 14 gallons

Average amount of water it takes to fill a bathtub: 35 gallons

Average speed of ejaculation: 28 miles per hour

Average speed of a city bus: 25 miles per hour

Average # of calories in a teaspoon of semen: 7

Average # of calories in a can of Dr. Pepper: 150

Average length of penis when not erect: 3.5 inches

Average length when erect: 5.1

Smallest natural penis recorded: 5/8 of an inch

Largest natural penis recorded: 11 inches

Percent of men who say they masturbate: 60%

Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%

Percent of men who say they feel guilty masturbating that often: 41%

Amount of time needed for a man to regain erection: from 2 minutes to 2weeks

Average # of erections per day for a man: 11

Average # of erections during the night: 9

Distance sperm travels to fertilize an egg: 3-4 inches

Time it takes the sperm to travel the distance: 2.5 seconds

Odors that increase blood flow to the penis: lavender, licorice, chocolate, doughnuts, pumpkin pie.

The first toy that most males play with is, themselves this has been studied in zoos under the claimed animal behaviourists science.

more money is spent on penial enhancements, pills, herbs viagra, black rinos horn than is spent on hair treatments every year world wide.

most men fail to check themselves for testiculer cancer.

Vagina Facts (|)

Average Depth of a Vagina: between 3 to 6 inches.

Largest Vagina: the female blue whale with a normal length of 6 to 8 feet.

Largest Human Vagina: belonged to a woman who was 7'8" tall.

Smallest Vagina: 2 or 3 centimeters - surgery is required for correction.

Longest Clitoris: recorded at 4½ inches long and 1½ inches diameter.

Longest Labia Minora: some African tribes enlarge their labia to 7 inches in length.

Largest Buttocks: Hottentot tribe have buttocks that each can be two or three feet.

Largest Breasts: 44-pounds breasts measuring 33 inches in circumference.

Most Breasts: In 1886 a french woman was recorded with ten individual breasts.

Most Orgasms: 134 in one hour for a woman - 16 for a man.

Longest Recorded Orgasm: 43-seconds with 25 consecutive contractions.

Longest Recorded Pubic Hair: 28" (71.12 cm) long.

According The Solitary Vice, a book for doctors that came out in the 1890s, women who masturbate tend to eat a lot of foods containing mustard and vinegar.

Women were discouraged from having orgasms during the Middle Ages because it was thought that orgasms made women less capable of getting pregnant.

The modern IUD invented was invented in 1909.

According to the Hite Report, candles are the artificial device used more frequently by women when masturbating.

According to Kinsey Report (1953), 15 percent of the female population was capable of multiple orgasms.

The vagina and the eye are self-cleaning organs.

Having an orgasm relieves menstrual cramps because the vigorous muscle action moves blood and other fluids away from congested organs.

"Scrump" is archaic slang for "the sexual act." Ben Franklin referred to prostitutes as "scrumpets."

The G-spot is named for Dr. Ernest Grafenberg.

The modern psychiatric definition of nymphomaniac is a woman who cannot experience sexual satisfaction regardless of the number of orgasms or partners she has.

According to one source, there are about 1,000 recognized slang words for "vagina."

a recent survey of women who use vibrators for sexual relief, 8 out 10 stated they do not insert the vibrator inside them, they use it on the outside of the clitoris to achieve orgasm.

A female orgasm is a powerful painkiller (because of the release of endorphins), so headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex.

It is ancient legend that Cleopatra of the Nile had 2 orgasms a day and manufactured her diaphragm out of cow dung.

Nutritional Value in a Serving of Semen

A typical ejaculation fills up about one teaspoon; the actual amount is determined by a man's age (younger men usually make more semen), when he last ejaculated, and how long he's aroused before ejaculating, among other factors. Contrary to what you've heard, semen is not loaded with calories. Each teaspoon of ejaculate has about 5 - 7 calories and some 200 - 500 million sperm. Since sperm make up only about 1 percent of semen, what accounts for the other 99 percent? Well, its other ingredients include:

Fructose sugar
Water
Ascorbic acid (a.k.a., vitamin C)
Citric acid
Enzymes
Protein
Phosphate and bicarbonate buffers (bases)
Zinc

It is slightly alkaline, Ph 7.2

Can swallowing semen enrich a poor diet? Unless you're gulping gallons of it each day, it's no substitute for real nutritious cuisine.

Female Ejaculation

There is only one mystery greater then that of the female orgasm, it is female ejaculation. We've all heard stories about friends who have been with women who can ejaculate, but how many of us have actually experienced it first hand? When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite gray.

Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea, and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.

Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories here on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G spot stimulation (please read G spot section for more information). When the G spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The ejaculate does come out of the urethra, like urine, so that is where the confusion takes place.

So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes out the urethra, so it feels a lot like urine. Apart from people who love golden showers, how many people do you know who feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partners? It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.

"Medical Sex Facts"

1. It takes 116 muscles to climax, but only 17 to smile. {Like I care...}

2. Sex makes you alert and ready to face the world ... it's an ideal substitute for a hot breakfast.

3. The greater the orgasm, the deeper the sleep. Multiple "Os"(20 or more per hour) can induce a coma and near-fusion with the mattress.

4. Eat and drink sensibly. The combination of alcohol and sex, especially after long abstinence, can cause spontaneous fizzle.

5. Improved breath control increases oxygen supply throughout entire body, prevents asphyxiation during mighty kisses, trims and tones pelvis, promotes a stronger upper body enabling you to hold on tight and keep partner from damaging furniture during moments of ecstasy.

6. Better coordination prevents confusion during intricate manipulations, permitting you to talk and perform at the same time.

7. A single ejaculation, especially from a man, contains enough sperm cells to fertilize every woman in the Marines.

8. Oral sex is a great way to firm the lower face. (For whom?)

9. After 16 steady hours of sex, it is wise to check your insurance policy.

10."Where am I?" should not be considered an abnormal response to immense "O".

11. Men who experience difficulty with insertion should see a guidance counselor.

12. Too much arousal can bring on a hard-attack.

13. It's perfectly okay to have sex on an empty stomach, especially if it belongs to your partner.

14. You know that you've had too much sex when your life begins to flash before your eyes.

15. You know I've had too little sex when my partner begins to flash before my eyes.

16. Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and in demand.

17. Good sex can correct poor posture, or at least make it stand up straight.

18. Thirty percent of our body heat escapes through the head (wear a hat during sex).

19. Sex on an inclined surface (an anthill, for example) builds endurance.

20. The length of an orgasm is usually anywhere from three to eleven seconds or four to seven feet.

21. 1970 FDA approves spray-on Vaseline.

22. To prevent bedsores, oil the sheets.

23. Maintenance tip for massages: change the oil every 10,000 strokes.

24. Sexual survival depends on knowing the difference between a birthmark and a rash.

Sex Has Many Pluses

Did you know that you can tell from the skin whether a person is sexually active or not?

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth.

2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It's more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps, and you don't need special sneakers!

5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.

6. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!

7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.

8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque buildup.

9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.

10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

Prostate Information and Milking........

Recent studies conducted in Australia speculate that men who regularly masturbated, while in their 20s, may have better chances of avoiding prostate cancer in later life. There's never been a better reason for masturbation!!

With the above in mind perhaps men locked in chastity devices should receive regular milking to help maintain good prostate health. Milking may help to "flush out" the build up of toxins which accumulate within the prostate gland of a chaste male by enabling him to ejaculate without experiencing orgasm.

Prostate Milking can be used for two purposes:

1. To intensify orgasm and increase the amount of ejaculate. In such instances you or your keyholder would release you from your chastity device and whilst simulating the prostate gland, tease, excite, and arouse your cock.

2. To milk a man dry, whilst denying him orgasm.

Milking in terms of chastity is concerned with orgasm denial, ejaculation without orgasm. The technique used is the same prostate massage method, the only difference is that the penis is not to be aroused or excited by touch, and usually remains locked within the chastity belt or cage. This is something many keyholders like to introduce, and now with the news of the Australian study your keyholder can insist it's for the benefit of your health. You have no reason to refuse!

Prostate milking sometimes involves your keyholder placing ice around the cock and balls to reduce your enjoyment. Inventive mistresses and masters have even designed home made ice trays to freeze the water in a shape of a thick ice cock ring, which the chaste man must wear during the weekly milking session.

The milking session usually lasts between 10 - 40 minutes, and is a pleasurable gentle massage of the prostate, after about 10 minutes you will begin to release fluid which has a sensation similar to slow urinating, after continued massage the fluid flows out freely. This then becomes the property of your keyholder, and perhaps collected as it drops from you in a jar, cup or saucer. Some keyholders will insist that you then consume your own ejaculate, as a demonstration of your slave status, that you are humble, and fully appreciative of your keyholder.

Of course another method to ensure good prostate health, which your keyholder may prefer to adopt, is to simply release you from your chastity device and instruct you to masturbate until you ejaculate. This is preferred by many keyholders who love to watch their chaste male masturbate for them.


The Aneros Prostate Massager ..........

It can be difficult to milk the prostate using just your finger, and although some "G Spot" dildos are suitable, the Aneros Prostate Massager has been scientifically designed for this purpose. It is even possible with the Aneros to milk yourself if you do not have a keyholder.

One Viewers Review of the Aneros ..........

"My dear wife has provided me with peace and total fulfilment. Following her belief that testosterone was poisonous, she instituted a milking program.

Before I shower in the mornings I am required to collect a latex glove, her favourite crystal brandy glass and the Aneros prostate massager. I must then place them on a small table in our bedroom, get on the table facing the glove and the Aneros, place the glass below my cock (locked in my pink CB2000) and watch my wife as she snaps on the latex glove. She then holds the Aneros, which I must then lubricate, then I wait to be milked while positioned on the table. Sometimes I don't have to wait too long, other times my wife ask me to describe the sensations I know so well, and am longing for, before she commences my daily milking routine.

She gently massages my arse with a lubricated latex finger, to get me ready to accept the Aneros, then once I'm ready she slowly inserts it. Sometimes she will move it slowly in and out, other times she insists that I move it using only my anal muscles, breath in, tense my arse, and the Aneros slowly travels up inside. She collects my produce in the glass.

I do not experience orgasm in the common sense, but it has evolved into a very wonderful feeling of submission and relief. It feels as if my guts are turning inside out. She whispers encouraging remarks while she does this. After I stop flowing, I am expected to drink the produce so as not to be wasteful. Then I shower.

My daily milking sessions means that I go to work and the day is without distraction. I enjoy the ladies around me, but I cannot become aroused. I stay in the neutered condition well into the evening. If my wife desires sex, I am butt plugged with the Aneros. Then she will mount me and satisfy herself. The experience is wonderful. I then feel stimulated all night until I hop up on my milking table in the morning. I love these experiences and look forward to them very much. Correct milking via a prostate massager is a great gift from a woman to a man, one he can NEVER repay, no matter how hard he tries".

James December 2003




The Prostate Gland is located about halfway between the testicles and rectum and is wrapped around the urethra (the urethra is the outlet that discharges urine and semen from the penis). Imagine a pipe passing through the hole of a doughnut. The pipe is the urethra and the doughnut is the prostate.

Functions of the Prostate:

You need a healthy prostate gland to urinate efficiently and also to have an erection. One of it's main functions is to create the seminal fluid which mixes with, and carries, the sperm out of the penis during ejaculation. The prostate gland also serves as a pump to transport the semen and sperm with sufficient power out of the penis on it's way to fertilising a woman's egg. Therefore the prostate acts as a gland and a pumping muscle.

In Tantric terms the prostate is also considered to be the nerve and emotional center of a man's sex life and his sexuality. It's thought to be the feeling center for sexual pleasures, and disappointments.

When the prostate gland swells it puts pressure on the urethra (the largest pipe), and makes the passage of urine more difficult . The swollen prostate, also puts pressure on the nerves responsible for an erection (the erection nerves pass over and are attached to the outside of the prostate gland) and makes them less sensitive, and therefore, an erection difficult, or even impossible.

If you are experiencing discomfort or problems with your prostate you should visit your doctor.

Stimulating the Prostate..........

Until recently the word "Prostate" tended to conjure up thoughts and images of incontinent elderly men, but the prostate is a hidden small gland which when stimulated can produce some very enjoyable sensations. The association with anything "anal" has meant that prostate pleasure has remained a well-kept secret. Many men have never experienced the pleasures of their prostate, perhaps because there was little information about it until recently, others have been concerned that anything anal is "dirty", some have thought that only gay men enjoy anal sex. This is simply not true. The prostate should be thought of as a little pleasure gland which men can choose to use if they wish.

The Prostate gland is located about 4cm (1.6 inches) inside the anus. It's job is to create prostatic fluid, which combines with sperm and fluid from the seminal vesicles to create seamen. The prostate is a small soft organ (about the size of a chestnut) which contains lots of nerve endings and very sensitive to the touch.

Although not impossible, it is very awkward to simulate your own prostate manually, which is why the Aneros can be a wonderful toy for the purpose. Some men are often embarrassed to ask their partner to give them prostate stimulation, but getting a loved one to do it is much better and far more relaxing than doing it yourself. Any man that has received an expertly conducted prostate massage never forgets it!

Techniques for Mistresses & Masters: How to give a good Prostate Massage..........

Props: Because the anal tissue is delicate, you'll need plenty of lubricant (commercially produced lubricants such as ID Lube are the best). It is also sensible and hygienic to wear surgical gloves which you can buy from most chemists or supermarkets. For many people latex gloves are such a turn on in their own right that the sight, or the sound of them snapping over your hand, is enough to get your man really turned on and aroused! A good prostate massager such as the Aneros is an essential item too, because it has been specifically designed for the purpose.

Begin: Once you have your props you should get him to lie on his back with his legs apart and you kneeling between them. Of course you can also position him on all fours. Warm up his anus by massaging the nerve endings of the perineum (the area between his scrotum and anus) with the pads of your fingers. Pressing gently but firmly in a circular motion will help stimulate the prostate gland inside.

When he is ready the muscles around his anal rim (the sphincters) will begin to twitch, you should then rub over the opening with your gloved and lubricated finger, you can then judge whether he is ready to accept your finger and to further prepare him or the prostate massager. As you insert your finger you will feel his sphincter muscles contract. This may feel uncomfortable to him at first, but just like any of our muscles it can only stay in spasm for so long, within approximately 30 seconds the sphincter muscles should have relaxed and released.

Continue to masturbate his anus as you insert your finger further inside him, with your finger nail facing his back make a "come here" motion, your finger should now be pressing the prostate and it may give him the sensation of wanting to urinate, but this won't actually happen. At this point you can slowly remove your finger, and slowly introduce the Aneros inside him.

As you continue to directly stimulate the prostate with either your finger or an Aneros it will increase in sensitivity, so continue to stimulate it by rubbing all over the gland, and in a pulsating manner. Now you can play with his cock too. (Unless of course this is part of Milking a man locked in chastity, when the intention is ejaculation without orgasm).

As he approaches orgasm you will feel his anal sphincter muscles contract around your finger, his prostate will become swollen as it's blood vessels expand. At the point of orgasm his prostate will contract, empty and shoot semen from his penis.

"Lady Jester" December 2003

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